When Robert was in his second marriage, he couldn’t understand why being a nice guy didn’t lead to his wife treating him better.

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“I read that book going through my first divorce and I think it literally saved my life.

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Three books that had a huge influence on Robert:.

No More Mr Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life by Dr.

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Glover holds a PhD in marriage and family therapy and has over 30 years of clinical work with countless men and women. Robert Glover ( is the author of No More Mr Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life.

“A really good starting point for any recovery process for Nice Guys is finding those safe people, revealing yourself, finding acceptance that you’re okay just as you are, releasing your toxic shame, connecting with men and finding ways to do guy things with guys…learning to be a good receiver” – Robert Glover.

3) If I do everything right, then I will have a problem-free life.

2) If I give to other people without them having to ask, then they should give to me without me having to ask.

1) If I’m a good guy, then I’ll be liked and loved.

Covert Contracts are secret agreements made by one person without the other one knowing.

In a sense, you’re dishonest, you’re not real.” – Robert Glover

“If you’re hiding everything about you, you’re not an authentic person.

“Because of that shame, what happens for most Nice Guys is that they try to become what they believe other people want them to be, in order to be loved and liked and get their needs met” – Robert Glover.

“Nice Guy syndrome is a shame based disorder” – Robert Glover.

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